“If you are a bird,I’m a bird.You are my home.”在电影《恋恋笔记本》中,这是一句经典的爱的告白,宣示的是富家女艾丽和乡村小伙诺亚的爱情。两人之间痛苦的分离在于身份、门第、教养、学识的巨大差异,而最后的结合则是因为对真爱的追求。当今社会对婚姻的倾向则是物质为基础,感情仅是锦上添花,爱情价值和物质价值在现代化的发展中调换了地位,造成形形色色的冲突,令人质疑的是,如今我们到底有多需要爱情? “In the movie” Love Notebook ", this is a classic love confession, declaring the wealthy girl Elle and country boy Noah Love. The painful separation between the two lies in the great differences in status, discipline, education and learning, and the final combination is the pursuit of true love. In today’s society, the propensity to marriage is based on materialism. Feelings are merely icing on the cake. The value of love and material value have changed their status in the development of modernization and created various conflicts. What is questioning is how much love we need nowadays?