于丹老师讲《论语》时,讲到自己的一次经历。一次,她和自己的学生外出游玩,有人爬到树上,恰巧被管理人员发现。树下有个男同学就喊:“树上那个同学,你还不赶紧下来?”而此时趴在树的就是他们的于丹老师。我想,这个老师生活中一定很率真,很阳光,很温情,在学生中很有人缘,她的学生一定会很喜欢她。这就是我们常说的亲和力吧。 Yu Dan teacher talk about “Analects of Confucius”, talked about his own experience. Once, she and her students go out to play, someone climbed the tree, happened to be managers found. There is a male student shouted under the tree: “The classmate on the tree, do not you hurry down?” And lying in the tree at this time is their Yu Dan teacher. I think, this teacher must be very straightforward life, very sunny, very warm, very popular among students, her students will love her very much. This is what we often say affinity.