人生在世遭受挫折和失败,在所难免;最要紧的是当挫折和失败来临之后,我们该如何面对?有的会深陷进祥林嫂式的追悔之中,整天在“如果”中讨生活:如果当初我不这样做就好了,如果当时的环境好一点的话……痛惜、悔恨不能自拔;有的却考虑如何吸取教训,如何找回成功,把失败造成的痛楚化为重振旗鼓的动力。抱着“如果”不放的人和勇 What is the most important thing is when the setbacks and failures come, how should we deal with them? Some will fall into the chase of Xianglinsao-style regret, all day long in the “If ”Discussing Life: If I had not done so at the time, if the environment was better then ... deplore, remorse could not extricate themselves; while others consider how to learn the lesson, how to recover success, and turn the pain caused by the failure into a heavy Impetuous force. Holding “if” let go of man and brave