为何别人对我们的评价和我们对自己的评价会有比较大的差异?为什么我们在观自己和观他人时,态度会不一样?原因很多,其中一个是我们习惯从不同的角度来观人观己。我们对自己更加看重的是潜力,对别人更看重实际能力。美国诗人朗费罗说“:我们通过自己能够做些什么来判断自己,却通过别人已经做过的事情来判断别人。”当我们评估自己未来的潜力和别人未来的潜力时,我们会更容易发现自己的潜力,而忽视他人潜在的闪光点。 Why do others have different opinions about us and what we evaluate? Why do we have different attitudes when we look at ourselves and others? There are many reasons for this. One of them is that we are used to seeing people from different perspectives already. What we value more about ourselves is potential, more emphasis on practical ability. American poet Longfellow said: “We judge ourselves by what we can do, but judge others by what others have done.” When we assess the potential of our future and the potential of others in the future, we will Find your potential more easily while ignoring the potential bright spots of others.