相爱的人要亲密有间,保持必要的距离。即使结了婚,各人仍应是独立的个人,并把对方作为独立的个人予以尊重。心灵相通,在实际生活中又保持距离,最能使彼此的吸引力耐久。家太平凡了,再温馨的家也充满琐碎的重复,所以家庭生活是难以入诗的。相反,羁旅却富有诗意。可是,偏偏在羁旅诗里,家成了一个中心意象。只有在“孤舟五更家万 Love people to be close, keep the necessary distance. Even when married, each should remain an independent individual and respect each other as independent individuals. The same spirit, in the actual life and keep a distance, the most attractive to each other durable. Home is trivial, and then warm home is full of trivial repetition, so it is difficult to enter family life poetry. On the contrary, boogie it is poetic. However, it happens in the poignant legend, the family has become a central image. Only in the ”Lonely boat five more home