讲述人:苏军庆,男,62岁,退休工人老伴6年前病故后,我一直没有再娶。这些年来除了帮子女照看孩子,我唯一的乐趣就是种花、钓鱼。不是我不想再找个伴,是孩子们不同意。之前经人介绍,我和一位丧偶的女士私下交往。女儿、儿子和儿媳知道后,都骂我“老不正经”。儿子说:“老人谈对象,这是开玩笑嘛。我们能供养你,你又不缺吃、不缺穿的,传出去真是丢人现眼!”因为不想被邻里笑话,也不想把家 Narrator: Su Junqing, male, 62 years old, retired worker wife died six years ago, I have not married again. In addition to helping children take care of children over the years, my only joy is to plant flowers and fish. Not that I do not want to find a companion, the children do not agree. Introduced before, I went private with a widowed lady. Daughter, son and daughter-in-law know, are scolded me “old not serious ”. My son said: “The old man talk about the object, it is a joke .We can support you, you are not lack of food, not missing, it is shameful to pass it!” "Because I do not want to be joked in the neighborhood,