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梁漱溟一直倾慕佛家出世思想,吃斋茹素,年近三十不娶。父亲屡屡催逼,他一口拒绝,毫无商量余地。不料,父亲死后两年,由于做《东西文化及其哲学》之讲演,竟渐起意于室家。一次与友人伍伯庸先生谈及此事,伍先生问其择妻条件,梁氏对曰:“在年龄上、容貌上、家世上全不计较,但愿得一宽和仁厚之人。不过,单是宽仁而缺乏超俗的意趣,似乎亦难与我为偶;有超俗的意趣,而魄力不足以副,这种人是不免要自苦的;所以宽仁超俗而有魄力者,是我所求。这自然不容易得,如果有天资大略近乎这样的,就是不识字亦没关系。”伍伯庸不禁面生喜色:“你真能这样彻底吗?当真能够这样,那我现在就可以给你介绍一个可意
Liang Shuming has been adored Buddhism born thought, eat vegetarian vegetarian, nearly thirty do not marry. Father repeatedly urged, he refused, there is no room for negotiation. Unexpectedly, his father died two years later, due to do “East-West culture and philosophy” of the speech, actually gradually intended roommate. Speaking about this issue with his friend Mr. Wu Bo-yong, Mr. Ng asked about the conditions for his wife to choose his wife. Liang said to him: “In the age, the appearance, the whole world does not care about, but willing to be a lenient and kind-hearted person. However, Is wide-hearted and the lack of super-popular interest, it seems difficult to coincide with me; have a vulgar taste, and courage is not enough to associate, such people can not help but feel unbearable; so Kwanren ultra vulgar and bold who I This is naturally not easy to get, if the talent is almost like this, that is not literate it does not matter. ”Wu Bo-yong can not help but look happy:" You really can be so thorough? If so, then I can introduce you to a meaning