当前师生关系存在冷漠化倾向,教师和学生是师生关系中的矛盾统一体,教学过程,就是教师和学生沟通理解的过程。教师在融洽师生关系中起到决定性作用。师者,传道,授业,解惑。传道列为首位,而传道是融洽师生关系主要渠道。而传道本身,就要求教师以道立人,以道服人,以道育人。所以,造成不良师生关系直接的、主要的原因在教师。教师的教育思想、教育观念、爱岗敬业精神等方面对学生有着积极的影响,教师只有进一步加强自身修养,善于与学生进行有效沟通,才能赢得学生的尊重和信任,教师的教育才会发生积极的效 The current relationship between teachers and students there is a tendency of indifference, teachers and students is a contradiction between teachers and students in the unity of the teaching process, that is, teachers and students to communicate and understand the process. Teachers play a decisive role in the harmonious relationship between teachers and students. Teachers, preaching, teaching, doubts. Preaching is the first place, and preaching is the main channel for harmonious relationship between teachers and students. The preaching itself, requires teachers to Tao Li, to convincing people, to educate people. Therefore, the direct cause of the bad relationship between teachers and students, the main reason is the teacher. Teachers ’educational thoughts, educational concepts and dedication and professional dedication have a positive impact on students. Only when teachers can further enhance their self-cultivation and communicate effectively with their students can they win the respect and trust of the students and teachers’ education will be positive Effective