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两年前,参加朋友组织的一个心灵成长工作坊。坊间,有个环节是要每个人说出对爱的理解。也许经过了两天的心灵激荡,每个人都有强烈的表达欲,只记得前面的每个人都说得极动情。但轮到最后一个人——一位中年男性摄影师,他简单的一句话让大家都沉默了:“我觉得爱是给对方他需要的,不多也不少。”说完,他身边的妻子会意地点着头,微笑地看着他。关于保持良好的夫妻关系,无数专家、书籍,会给你指点不同的秘籍。而这位先生的这番表达,简单却耐人寻味——“给对方需要的,不多也不少……”
Two years ago, I participated in a spiritual growth workshop organized by friends. There is a link between each other to say that everyone’s understanding of love. Perhaps after two days of soul stirring, everyone has a strong desire to express, just remember that everyone in front spoke very emotionally. But the last person - a middle-aged male photographer, his simple sentence so that everyone is silent: “I think love is to each other he needs, no more and no less. ” His wife nodded intently and looked at him with a smile. With regard to maintaining a good relationship between husband and wife, numerous experts, books, will give you pointers to different cheats. The expression of this gentleman, simple but intriguing - “to each other needs, not much less ...... ”