家庭教育中,很多时候父母教育子女时会下意识地,第一反应就对孩子使用“你……”信息,事实上“你……”信息的表达除了引起孩子紧张、压抑、愤懑等不良情绪外,没有解决问题的实际效果。为教育引导孩子的言行,提高孩子的自尊,在家庭教育中“我……”信息的运用远比“你……”信息更有效。家庭教育宜讲究运用“我……”信息的艺术。 In family education, parents often subconsciously educate their children. In the first reaction, they use “you ...” information on their children. In fact, the expression “you ...” not only causes the children to feel nervous, depressed and resentful Other negative emotions, there is no practical solution to the problem. To guide children’s behavior and education in education and improve children’s self-esteem, the use of information in family education is far more effective than that of information about you. Family education should pay attention to the use of “I ...... ” information art.