子曰:“君子不重则不威,学则不固,主忠信,无友不如己者,过则勿惮改。”这句话的意思是:君子不庄重就没有威信,即使学习,所学也不会巩固。要以忠实和诚信为主。不交不如自己的朋友。有了错误就不怕改正。做人如此,做家长亦如此。从这句话我们可以总结出,做好家长首先要做到四点:一是在孩子面前树立威信;二是要诚信待孩子,不轻易向孩子许诺;三 Confucius said: “The gentleman does not mean that is not the prestige, the study is not solid, the main loyalist, the friendship is inferior to oneself, did not fear to change. ” The meaning of this sentence is: gentleman does not dignified have no prestige, , Will not learn to consolidate. To be faithful and honest. Do not pay their own friends. Not wrong to correct. The same is true of people, so do parents. From this sentence we can conclude that parents must first do four things: First, establish prestige in front of children; second is to treat children with integrity, not easily promised to children; three