32岁的吉姆是荷兰阿姆斯特丹一家法律公司的商业经理,他平日的工作就是帮助当事人协调各种关系。2011年春天,吉姆接手了几个离婚案子,都因一方当事人以各种理由搪塞或推脱,迟迟不能达成协议。为此,吉姆绞尽脑汁,费尽九牛二虎之力才把双方拉到一个谈判桌上。案子处理完后,吉姆感到身心俱疲,他想如果长此以往,不仅每月拿不到足额的薪水,还会把自己的身体拖垮。就在他一 Jim, 32, is the commercial manager of a law firm in Amsterdam, the Netherlands, and his usual job is to help parties coordinate their relationships. In the spring of 2011, Jim took over several divorce cases, both because of one party to stall or shirk for various reasons, delay in reaching an agreement. To this end, Jim racked their brains, exhausted effort to pull both sides to a negotiating table. After the case was dealt with, Jim was mentally and physically exhausted. He thought that if it were not done for a long time, not only would he not get his monthly salary in full, but his body would be worn down. Just at him