爱与严教是统一的,一经发现孩子身上某种不良的苗头,就应果断采取各种措施。讲事实摆道理,如各种方法都不行,强化手段也是必要的,即使不忍心也要付之行动。我家的孩子在两三岁时脾气很犟。有一次他母亲正做饭分不开身时,他却要买冰棍,说着就把一双小脚插到地上的水盆里乱踹。晚上,他母亲向我讲述这件事儿后,我批评他,他还瞪着小眼睛向我分辩。于是我就脱了他的裤子,在屁股上留下了两张红红的手印。他母亲哭着说我心狠。孩子小不懂事,不该打。我觉得,正因为小不懂 Love and strict education are unified, once found some signs of bad child, you should decisively take various measures. To tell the truth, if all kinds of methods do not work, it is necessary to strengthen the means, even if they can not bear to act. My family’s children are very temper when they are two or three years old. Once his mother was cooking up, he wanted to buy a popsicle, saying that he put a pair of feet into the basin on the ground chaos. After his mother told me about it at night, I criticized him, and he glared at me with little eyes. So I took off his pants, leaving two red handprints on the buttocks. His mother cried and said I was cruel. Children are not sensible, should not fight. I think, precisely because I do not understand