劳伦斯,作为一位20世纪备受争议的英国作家。他一生坎坷、短暂,却留下了大量经典作品。论文通过查找文献资料对《虹》和《恋爱中的女人》这两部作品进行细节分析,对小说中爱情和主人公的婚姻进行剖析,旨在更深刻地把握作者的爱情观。劳伦斯提出男女关系既要相互尊重、独立,又要注重双方社会关系的相对稳定,这对当代的爱情观依然有启示意义。 Lawrence, a controversial 20th century British writer. His rough life, short, but left a large number of classic works. Through the detailed analysis of the two works of “Rainbow” and “Woman in Love”, the dissertation analyzes the marriage of love and the protagonist in the novel through the search of literature, aiming to grasp the author’s view of love more profoundly. Lawrence proposed that the relationship between men and women should not only respect each other, but also pay attention to the relative stability of social relations between the two sides, which is still enlightenment to the contemporary view of love.