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老年人常爱在茶余饭后聚集聊天,并以此为乐趣。聊天使人思索,可推迟大脑衰退,对健康十分有益。要谈话,就要脑、口、耳、目并用,有时还要加上手势,这本身便是一种活动。和别人聊天,除了增加乐趣外,还可增长知识,增添老人之间的感情,广交朋友,摆脱孤独的心境,保持舒畅的心情。聊天是人们利用语言进行的感情交流。请君注意以下几个方面的社交用语。一、寒喧性的。每次见面,如问‘您早’、‘您好’,或说些天气变化的情况,来增进人与人之间的友情。二、赞美性的。如同事穿了一件好衣服或家人烹制了一桌可口的饭莱,可以赞美几句。这会使别人在愉悦中得到感情的满足。三、沟通性的。读了好的书报,可以互相推荐看看;看了电影、电视,相互谈谈观感;以及社会上的‘热门话题’彼此交流看法,这都是感情上的沟通。
Elderly people often love chatting after gossip, and as a pleasure. Chat makes people think, can postpone the brain recession, is very good for health. To talk, we must brain, mouth, ear, head and use, and sometimes add gestures, which in itself is an activity. Chat with others, in addition to increase the fun, but also increase knowledge, increase the feelings of the elderly, make friends, get out of loneliness, and maintain a comfortable mood. Chatting is the exchange of emotions that people use in their language. Please pay attention to the following aspects of social language. First, noisy sex. Meet each other, such as asking ’your morning’, ’hello’ or say some weather changes, to enhance the friendship between people. Second, praise. Such as colleagues wearing a good clothes or family cooked a delicious rice bowl, you can praise a few words. This will make others happy in the emotional satisfaction. Third, communication. Reading good books and newspapers can recommend each other; watching movies, television, talking with each other; and social “hot topics” exchange views with each other, these are emotional communication.