问:我的儿子很调皮捣蛋,经常跟别的同学打架,有时人家家长领着挨打的孩子找上门来,有时儿子自己“挂了彩”回来。请问我该怎样处理这让我头疼的事? 答:小孩间出现纠纷、打架,是常有的事,作为父母不能因小孩受委屈,而一蹦三尺高,冲上去为小孩助阵理论,导致事情越闹越大,保持克制态度有利于孩子间纠纷问题的有效解决。先观察再定夺很多时候,小孩间闹纠纷、打架,完全是无意识的行为,由于不存在根本利益和冲突,小孩纠纷往往是今天打明天和,或边打边和,根本记不到脑里去。面对孩子间小纠纷,家长先不发作,安慰好孩子,观察一阵再说。说不定第二天小孩又和好如初,或完全忘记了昨天的不快,家长达到无为而治的效果。求学校出面解决有时候,小孩间纠纷闹大了,或小孩出现了身体受伤害情况,家长除了给小孩及时救治 Q: My son is very naughty and often fights with other classmates. Sometimes parents take their beaten children to visit. Sometimes the son returns with his own color. How do I deal with this makes me a headache? A: disputes between children, fighting, is common, as parents can not be wronged children, and jumped three feet high, rushed to help children play theory, leading to The bigger and bigger things are, the more restrained the attitude is, the more conducive to solving the dispute between children. First observation and then decipher Many times, children trouble, trouble, completely unconscious behavior, because there is no fundamental interests and conflicts, child disputes are often tomorrow and tomorrow, or playing and never mind to go . In the face of small disputes between children, parents do not attack first, to comfort children, observe again and again. Perhaps the next day the child is reconciled, or completely forgot yesterday’s unpleasant, parents achieve the effect of doing nothing. Seek a solution to the school Sometimes, disputes between children big trouble, or children suffered a physical injury, parents in addition to timely treatment of children