一堂语文课上,老师问到:“‘吹面不寒杨柳风’,不错的,像母亲的手抚摸着你,那么‘像母亲的手抚摸着你’,你有何感受?”当时,有许多同学回答:温暖、亲切、慈爱、舒服、温柔……恰在此时,有一男生答道,“讨厌”,引起了全班同学哄堂大笑。老师肯定了前者,舍弃了后者。课后,笔者问这个学生为什么会有这种体验, In a Chinese language class, the teacher asked, “’Impression is not cold, the willow winds’ is good, like a mother’s hand stroking you, then ’like a mother’s hand stroking you’, how do you feel?” At that time, there was Many students answered: Warm, affectionate, loving, comfortable and gentle... At this moment, one boy answered, “I hate” and caused the whole class to laugh. The teacher affirmed the former and abandoned the latter. After class, the author asked why the student had this experience.