目前,国际上有一种性的行为治疗,就是重新培训夫妻相互的性行为方式,来解决一系列性生活不和谐的问题。根据我国现有的情况,还难于开展这项工作,更不可能要求配偶成为专家来治疗的对方。因此尽管这方面的知识已经在报刊上登了不少,但人们最关心的是:能不能进行自我培训?又该如何去做? At present, there is a kind of sex behavioral treatment in the world, which is to re-train the couple’s sexual behavior to solve a series of problems of sexual disharmony. According to the current situation in our country, it is still difficult to carry out this work and it is even less possible to require the spouse to be an expert to treat each other. So although this knowledge has been published in the press a lot, but people are most concerned about: can not self-training? And how to do it?