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一位朋友问我,“我和丈夫彼此深爱,但性生活却很平淡,原因在哪里?”她是位中学老师,教的还是生理卫生课,丈夫是位医生。结婚20年来,她从没有和他讨论过这个问题。“我什么都跟他谈,但似乎就是没办法和他谈性,”她终于说,“我想告诉他我的需要,可是不知道该怎样说好。”之后,我和6位著名的性治疗专家谈起这个问题。令我感到惊奇的是,关于什么是妇女想告诉丈夫的事情这一点,这6位专家的推论和那位妇女的说法竟是大致不谋而合。以下是女人最希
A friend asked me, “My husband and I love each other, but sex is very dull, the reason?” She is a middle school teacher, taught or physical health class, her husband is a doctor. She has never discussed this issue with him for 20 years after getting married. “I can talk to him anything, but it seems that there is no way to talk to him, ” She finally said, “I want to tell him my needs, but do not know what to say. ” After I and 6 Well-known sex therapists talk about this issue. What amazed me was the fact that the inferences of the six experts and those of the woman actually coincided about what it was that women wanted to tell her husband. The following is the woman’s favorite