担任学校心理辅导老师期间,我经常在学生的来信中看到这样的提问:“都说三角形是最稳定的平面几何图形,为什么三角形的人际关系却不稳定?”确实,生与死、爱恋与遗弃、信仰与背叛、悲欢离合组成的一幕幕人间悲喜剧经常在我们身边上演,影响人际关系的一个重要的因素是人际沟通。我们可以从几个简单的图形中,来分析人际关系中的一些现象。 During my time as a school counselor, I often saw such questions in the students’ letters: “All say triangles are the most stable plane geometry, and why the triangle’s interpersonal relationship is unstable?” "Indeed, life and death, Love and abandonment, faith and betrayal, scenes of joys and sorrows and joys and sorrows often appear around us, one of the most important factors influencing interpersonal relationships is interpersonal communication. We can analyze some of the phenomena in human relationships from a few simple graphs.