人们常用“亲密无间”来形容两个人之间的关系非常之好。我们都渴望有一个亲密无间的朋友,也常常把“亲密无间”视为朋友交往的最高境界。亲密无间就一定很好吗?不见得。常识告诉我们:物极必反,什么事都应该有一个尺度。号称“东方不败”的葛菲和顾俊,是我国大名鼎鼎的羽毛球运动员,也是最要好的搭档。她们的“女双配对”所向披靡,自1996年起至1999年的3年间,两人在国际比赛中从没有输过一场球。她们默 People often use “intimate ” to describe the relationship between the two very good. We all long for an intimate friend, and we often think “intimate ” as the highest level of friends. Intimacy must be good? Not necessarily. Common sense tells us: things are very negative, everything should have a scale. Known as “Oriental unbeaten,” Ge Fei and Gu Jun, is our famous badminton player, but also the most good partner. Their “duel match” invincible, from 1996 until 1999, three years, both in the international competition never lost a ball. They are silent