生活中,我们常常会听到女人们这样抱怨:他怎么那么不解风情,他怎么那么不懂人心;而男人们也在抱怨:女人心,海底针,真叫人难以捉摸。究竟是女人的要求太高,还是男人的确智商低下?都不是,而是男人们的情商普遍偏低。当然,男人们并不是不会谈情说爱,他们有冲动,也有激情,他们追求起心爱的人来攻势凶猛。只是,对于感情,他们缺乏辨析深浅的能力,在婚恋中,他们缺乏洞察对方情绪的敏感。男性的情商不足,使得很多女性在婚恋生活中独自痛苦而又无可奈何。 In life, we often hear women complain like this: how he does not understand the customs, how he does not know the hearts of the people, and the men are complaining: the woman’s heart and the needles are really elusive. Is it true that women’s demands are too high or are men’s IQs low? Neither is it, but men’s EQs are generally low. Of course, men do not talk and love, they are impulsive and passionate, and they pursue the beloved people to attack ferociously. Only, for feelings, they lack the ability to distinguish between the depths of their love, they lack the sensitivity of the other party’s feelings. Men’s lack of emotional intelligence, making a lot of women alone in the marriage life painless and helpless.