揠苗助长的故事是众所周知的,这个故事可以应用到我们教养孩子上。许多父母因为望子成龙,不惜在孩子的腿部肌肉还未发达时,便强迫他学习行走,在脑部发育未完全及手眼合作未完善时,便强迫他伏在案头上,读书写字。他们以为这样可以炫耀于亲戚朋友。其实这样下去往往会使孩子视学习如畏途,不是成不了材,便是长大会变成体格衰弱、心理不健全的人。由此看来,用成人的想法去对待儿童,强制儿童做些不能做及不喜欢做的事情,只会弄巧成拙。因为许多事在成人的眼中是轻而易举的,但儿童去做却吃不消。 It is well-known that the story of bamboo shoots helps to promote this story to our children. Many parents because of their ascended the throne, at the child’s leg muscles have not yet developed, they forced him to learn to walk in the brain is not fully developed and hand-eye cooperation is not perfect, he was forced to fall on the desk, reading and writing. They thought it might show off to relatives and friends. In fact, going on like this usually leads to the children learning as if they are afraid of their way or not, that is, they will become physically weak and mentally unsound people. From this, it is only self-defeating that children should be treated as adults and children should be forced to do something they can not and do not like. Because many things are easy in the eyes of adults, children do too much.