成年子女和老年父母之间,永远在进行一场拉锯战:父母们永远希望能更多地挤进子女的生活中来,子女们则总是希望有自己的私生活,能更多地远离父母亲。一位女读者,新婚期闹着要离婚,因为婆媳不和。不过,她家的婆媳矛盾有那么点特殊:别人家的媳妇是抱怨婆婆对自己不好,她则是抱怨婆婆对自己“太好”! Between adult children and elderly parents, there is always a tug of war: parents will always want to squeeze into their children’s lives more and more, and children will always want to have their own private life, to stay away from their parents . A female reader, the newlyweds to divorce, because the law and not. However, her home-law conflicts are so special: someone else’s house wife is complaining that her mother is not good for her, and she is complaining about her mother’s “good”!