自从有了孩子,你的身边就免不了批评和指摘的声音。不论出发点如何,很抱歉,那些评头论足的人的潜台词其实就是一个“你不该养孩子”。该如何反击?在古代的狩猎-采集社会,那些对社会非议无动于衷的人,有可能会被惩罚或者处死。所以,这也难怪,为什么我们会觉得他人的出言不逊是多么令人厌恶。要知道,这些话给我们带来了很大的压力。在你的育儿生涯中,这种事情可能很早就开始出现了。我的一个朋友,在怀孕的时候曾经向一个护士请教是否不该吃软奶酪。她想知道现在是否已经有 The voice of criticism and criticism can not be avoided by your side since you have children. No matter what the starting point, I am very sorry, those who comment on the subtext is actually a “You should not have children ”. How to counterattack? In ancient hunting - collecting society, those who are indifferent to social criticism may be punished or executed. So it’s no wonder why we feel resentful about what others say. You know, these words have brought us a lot of pressure. In your parenting career, this kind of thing may have started very early. A friend of mine, when pregnant, asked a nurse if she should not eat soft cheese. She wondered if it was already there