关于变化与损失,已经有无数的俗话、谚语和格言论述过——刚刚你就读两则了。但其中最著名(并且被错误引用)的也许是:“不劳则无获”。当诗人罗伯特·赫里克将这些文字收录进自己的诗歌《赫斯珀里得斯》时,说的可不是减肥哦!别误会我的意思;我们不是鼓吹卧薪尝胆、艰难岁月,但是——得承认这是个让人难以下咽的“但是”——我们应该尝试从消极的处境中发现积极的方面,而不是当灾难袭来就妄下定论,视之为世界末日。 There have been countless myths, proverbs and maxims about change and loss - just two of your studies. But perhaps the most famous of these (and misquoted) may be: When the poet Robert Herrick included these words in his own poem, “Huspellias,” it was not about losing weight! Do not misunderstand what I meant; we are not advocating a hard-edged and hard time, but - Admit this hard to swallow “But ” - we should try to find positive aspects from the negative situation, rather than jump to conclusions when the disaster hit, as the doomsday.