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编辑同志:我女儿已满3周岁,生活自理能力尚可。有一天下午,她突然站着尿尿,尿湿了裤子。我问她怎么回事,她却理直气壮地说:“龙龙为什么站着尿尿。”第二天早上起床时,她又突然问:“妈妈,我长大后是不是跟龙龙一样,有那个东西?”我回答她说:“你是女孩子,龙龙是男孩子,所以你不能站着尿尿,也不会长那个东西。”“为什么要分男孩和女孩呢?”女儿仍不解地问。我真的不知该如何向她解释了。最近,我发现她对性问题愈来愈感兴趣了,家里只要谁进卫生间,她都直敲门非要进去看看。我翻阅了有关杂志,有人认为应该告诉孩子实情,采取开放式的性教育,有人却认为我们的孩子从小的生活环境和传统习俗跟西方人不同,若采取开放教育,会增加孩子的负担。对这个问题,我感到非常困惑和棘手,希望得到你们的帮助和指导。安徽萧县赵敏
Editor’s Comrade: My daughter is over 3 years old, ability to take care of themselves is acceptable. One afternoon, she suddenly stood pee, wet pants. When I asked her what was going on, she confidently said: “Why the dragon stood peeing.” The next morning when she woke up, she suddenly asked: “Mom, I grew up with the dragon is not the same, there That thing? ”I said to her:“ You are a girl, a dragon is a boy, so you can not stand peeing nor do you grow that thing. ”“ Why boys and girls? ” Solve the question. I really do not know how to explain to her. Recently, I found that she was more and more interested in sexual issues. When anyone in the family entered the bathroom, she had to knock on the door and go in and see. I read the magazine, some people think that should tell the children the truth, take open sex education, some people think that our children’s small living environment and traditional practices different from Westerners, if open education will increase the burden on children. I am very confused and thorny on this issue, hoping to get your help and guidance. Zhao Min, Xiao County, Anhui Province