一位心理学家曾做过一个实验,当他与朋友在餐桌上聊天时,他有意识地将桌上一件件的餐具往朋友那边移动,结果本来谈得很热烈的朋友开始变得心神不宁,最后终于提出了抗议,说他感到了某种压力。由此,心理学家得出结论,我们每个人都有一个精神的禁地。一天中午我去教工食堂进餐,路过学生餐厅时,发现我班的陈小虎同学正蹲在地上吃饭,碗里只有几根咸菜,他却吃得津津有味,完全忘了周围的一 A psychologist once did an experiment. When he chatted with his friends at the dinner table, he consciously moved one piece of tableware to the side of his friend on the table. As a result, the originally enthusiastic friends began to become psyched out. In the end, he finally protested and said that he felt some pressure. From this, psychologists came to the conclusion that each of us has a spiritual ban. At noon one day, when I went to the cafeteria to have a meal, when I passed the student’s restaurant, I found that my classmate Chen Xiaohu was eating on the ground. There were only a few pickles in the bowl. He ate it with relish and completely forgot about the surrounding one.