台湾著名的两性情感专家张怡筠说,在感情中,对另一半心存不满或是火冒三丈时,若想将抱怨吵架转化为亲密的交流方式,那就必须放下“硬批评”的铠甲,练就一身“软抱怨”的神功。软抱怨,实际上就是将你心中对他的不满和怨气重新包装,巧妙地传达给他,从而产生亲密的交流。 Zhang Yi-jun, a famous Taiwan-based gender expert, said that in feelings of being dissatisfied with the other half or furious, if you want to convert a complaining quarrel into an intimate exchange, you have to put down your “hard criticism” armor and practice Just a “soft complain ” magic. To complain softly is to repackage his grievances and grievances in your heart and convey it to him cleverly so as to create intimate exchanges.