一直以来,大多数人认为,工作越努力,事业就越成功,而事业越成功,自己就会越开心。然而,实际情况是,每当成功实现一个目标时,人们总会酝酿另外一个更高目标。比如,考取了哈佛大学会很开心,但到了哈佛以后,下一个目标马上就来了。长此以往,我们永远不可能开心。所以,需要改变这种思考范式。 All along, most people think that the harder you work, the more successful you are and the more successful you are, the more happy you are. The reality, however, is that when one goal is successfully achieved, there is always another goal to be brewed. For example, Harvard admitted to be very happy, but to Harvard, the next goal is coming soon. In the long run, we can never be happy. Therefore, we need to change this paradigm.