今天早上,朵朵来得比较晚,而且一脸的不高兴,没有了往日的活泼和热情。朵朵的妈妈告诉我:“今天早上朵朵闹着不肯来上幼儿园。经再三引导,她终于说出了原因。原来昨天户外活动的时候她和小朋友打架了,而且据说是有两三个小朋友一起打她。”我连忙询问昨天带班的老师,原来是几个孩子玩“抓坏蛋”的游戏时,朵朵个头小,成了伙伴的攻击对象。强烈的挫折感让一向自信的她产生了退缩行为,这在心理学上称作“退行”。这个时候如果直接说教,只会把她的心理推向更孤独 This morning, blossoming came late, and a look of unhappy, without the past lively and enthusiastic. Blossoming mother told me: “This morning blossoming reluctant to come to kindergarten .After repeated guidance, she finally said the reason.It was yesterday when outdoor activities she and children fight, and is said to have two or three A small friend hit her together. ”I quickly asked yesterday with the class teacher, turned out to be a few children to play “ grab the bad guy ”game, blossoming small, became partners of the attack. The strong sense of frustration that has always been confident that she had a withdrawal behavior, which psychologically called “back line ”. This time if direct preaching, only to her psychological more lonely