齐豫有首《幸福》,其中歌词令人回味:“婚姻,让人忘却贪婪抵抗孤独,有人因此停驻,有人一生进进出出,都需要祝福。”前段时间,各大电视台热播一部电视剧——《半路夫妻》,引发了很多人对于再婚的关注。对于再婚,可能十个人就会有十种意见,无论是社会学家,还是身在其中的人。因为这个话题太私人了,无论作出哪种决定,都要有取舍,关键是你更看重的是什么,能舍弃的又是什么。或者说,你对婚姻的成本核算方式是怎么样的。 Qi Yu has the first “happiness”, of which the lyrics are memorable: “Marriage, people forget that greed loneliness, some people stop here, some people come in and out of life, need blessing.” Some time ago, major television hit a Ministry of drama - “Halfway Couples”, triggered a lot of people concerned about the remarriage. For remarriage, ten people may have ten opinions, whether they are sociologists or those who are in it. Because this topic is too personal, no matter what kind of decision to make, there must be trade-offs. The key is what you value more and what you can give up. Or, how is your cost of marriage accounting?