我们总是希望能够读懂身边的人,了解他们一举一动的含义。健身房里有个热衷于锻炼的家伙,看着他积极敦促其他健身者加紧练习的样子,我们就会猜想他肯定看不起锻炼时应付了事的人;我们也会提醒自己,尽量少跟那个坚持对每个人做的电子表格都进行微调的同事打交道。我们也总是好奇地想知道同事、朋友和家人接下来会做些什么,并据此判断我们自己该如何应对。 We always want to be able to read the people around us and understand the meaning of their actions. There’s a guy in the gym who’s keen to workout and watching him actively urging other bodybuilders to step up their practice, and we’re guessing he’s surely looking down on those people who have to deal with things while exercising; we’ll also remind ourselves to be as persistent as possible Everyone doing spreadsheets have fine-tuned colleagues dealing with. We are also always curious to find out what our co-workers, friends and family will do next, and to judge how we respond to them.