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浙江嘉兴读者张珩来信:4岁的女儿渐渐有自己的想法和主见,甚至为了坚持自己的主张而顶撞我们。一方面,我为女儿的成长高兴,因为现代父母都有“孩子是独立的个体,应予以尊重”的概念;另一方面,我自己在“长幼有序”、小孩要“有耳无嘴”的传统中国家庭中长大,成长过程中似乎没有被尊重的经验,因此常常疑惑:怎样满足孩子被尊重的需要而又不是放纵孩子?希望得到大家的帮助。主持:孩子成长过程中有强烈的尊重需要(自尊和来自他人的尊重),而尊重需要的满足与否对孩子积极自我的确立、和谐人格的发展具有重要意义。本期,我们分享杭州武林幼儿园6位家长的经验。
Zhang Heng, a reader from Jiaxing, Zhejiang Province, wrote: The 4-year-old daughter gradually has her own ideas and assertions, even hitting us for upholding her own claims. On the one hand, I am happy about the growth of my daughter, because modern parents all have the concept of “the child is an independent individual and should be respected”; on the other hand, I am “young and old” "Growing up in the traditional Chinese family seems to have no experience of growing up, so often wondered: how to meet the needs of children are respected rather than indulge their children? I hope everyone’s help. Moderator: There is a strong respect for children’s development needs (self-esteem and respect from others), and to meet the needs of the child’s positive self-established, harmonious development of personality is of great significance. In this issue, we share the experiences of 6 parents in Hangzhou Wulin Kindergarten.