《发现母亲》一书的作者王东华说:“天下只有不是的父母,没有不是的孩子。孩子是父母的作品,字写得不好不能怪纸笔,孩子没教育好不能怪孩子。要想孩子伟大,父母必须先伟大。父母能走多远,孩子就能走多远。”这段话意味深长。那么,一个伟大的父母是怎样的呢?笔者努力去寻找这个一般规律,以给21世纪的父母们拥有真正的伟大提供一点帮助。伟大的父母不在知识多少,而在智慧的拥有什么是智慧?《现代汉语词典》中的解释是辨析、判断、发明创造的能力。《新华词典》中的解 Wang Donghua, author of “Discovering Mother,” said: “There is not only no parents in the world, no no children. Children are parents’ works, the characters can not be written badly, can not blame paper, children can not blame children if they are not educated. Great, parents must first be great, how far parents can go and how far their children can go. ” So what is a great parent? The author strives to find the general law that will give 21st century parents some real greatness to help. The great parents are not knowledge of how much wisdom in the possession of what is wisdom? “Modern Chinese Dictionary” is the interpretation of discrimination, judgment, invention and creation ability. Solutions in “Xinhua Dictionary”