很多人,把成长看成一条直线。乐观主义者说,成长是向社会宣战的过程。这样的成长,有如直指云霄的直线,意欲身登青云梯而一步到天。但是,这样可行吗?不要低估了社会的竞争力和战斗力,它可以用事业挫折、人际屏障等武器,让宣战者的锐气消磨殆尽,最终不战而败。悲观主义者说,成长是向社会妥协的过程。这样的成长,正如直指深渊的直线,意欲磨圆自己的棱角而生活得更顺滑。但是,这样有意义吗?受社会中众多复杂因素的支配和指使,渐渐迷失了自我独一无二的价值,何异于奴隶社会和封建社会?有人曾在读 Many people think of growth as a straight line. Optimists say growth is the process of declaring war on society. Such a growth, like a straight line pointing to the sky, the body descending ascend ladder step by step. However, this is feasible? Do not underestimate the social competitiveness and combat effectiveness, it can use career setbacks, interpersonal barriers and other weapons, so that the declared war veteran eradicated, eventually losing no battle. Pessimists say that growth is a process of compromise with society. Such a growth, just as directed at the abyss of a straight line, is intended to round its edges and live more smoothly. But is this meaningful? By the control and enactment of many complicated factors in society, it gradually loses its unique value of self, what is different from slave society and feudal society? Someone was reading