建议一:家长要调整好自己的不良情绪。有时,危机的受害者是孩子,但受到心理冲击更大的却可能是我们父母。不难理解,养一个孩子不容易,自己的希望都在孩子身上,孩子经历伤害,父母内心更是充满自责和懊悔……这些想法有时会让我们自己比孩子还要脆弱,会有种自己“崩溃”了的感觉, Proposal 1: Parents should adjust their negative emotions. Occasionally, the victims of the crisis are children, but more likely to be psychologically affected by our parents. It is not difficult to understand that raising a child is not easy, his hope is in the child, the child experiences injuries, and the parents are full of self-blame and remorse in their heart ... These thoughts sometimes make us even more vulnerable than their children and have their own kind The feeling of “collapse”