1.给予而不是索取。现代慈善不仅是不图回报,施者还要向受者感恩,感谢贫困者为捐赠者提供了实现爱心的机会。只有实施捐赠才是慈善。捐赠的形式丰富多样,但一定是所有权的让渡,由基金会代表社会管理财产。2.宽容而不是苛责。宽容应是慈善界的主流行为方式。过高的道德标准, Give it instead of claim it Modern philanthropy is not only a reluctant return, but the beneficiaries are also grateful to the recipients, in the thanks of the poor for giving donors the opportunity to realize their love. Only donations are charities. The form of donations is rich and varied, but must be a concession of ownership by the foundation managing property on behalf of society. Tolerance rather than blame. Tolerance should be the mainstream behavior of the charity community. Excessive moral standards,