我是军人,有一个儿子。但家属随军前,孩子都是跟他妈在苏北老家长大的,我这个当爸的一年只能探亲一个月。由于儿子跟母亲时间长,再加上苏北老家左邻右舍女孩子多,儿子老是与她们玩耍,当家属随军定居后,我发现儿子身上缺少阳刚之气,胆小爱哭,让我这个军人爸爸很伤脑筋。我决心让儿子像个男子汉起来。尽管他妈可以也愿意在家带孩子,我还是与他妈商量,把四岁的儿子放到离家十多里远的市区全托幼儿园去,那里一方面教育水准高些,一方面可以让儿子学会独立、自理能力。儿子起先害怕,我便给他讲英雄故事,买英雄小书。每个星期天接他回来,常带他去到部队营地看战士军事训练和站岗放哨。男孩到底是男孩,带他到阳刚之气的地方走动多了,听阳 I am a soldier and have a son. However, with their families before the army, the children grew up with his mother in northern Jiangsu, my father can only go to visit relatives a month a year. Since my son and mother spend a long time together with many neighbors in the north of our hometown, my son always plays with them. When their relatives settled with the army, I found my son lack of masculinity and timid cry and let me This soldier father is very headache. I am determined to make my son like a man up. Although his mother can and wants to bring her own children at home, I still discuss with my mom and put her four-year-old son in the urban nursery school ten miles away from home. On the one hand, he has higher education level and on the other hand, Learn to be independent and self-care. At first afraid of his son, I will tell him a hero story, buy a hero small book. Pick him up every Sunday, and often take him to the army camp to see the soldiers in military training and guard post. Boys in the end is a boy, took him to the masculinity of the place to move more, listen to Yang