生活中不如意的事太多了,因此总会受到伤害。受到伤害而又产生自责,这就折磨得我们总是跟自己过不去。 其实,当我们静下心来想一想,我们会惊讶地发现,与完全推卸责任相反,有时我们竟然全部承担了并不应该承担的责任。这不是为自己开脱,很多时候,事情的起因发展与经过结果并不仅仅只是我们自己的错,而别人,或许也有几分过。 有了这样的想法,也许我们的心灵就不会被折磨得千疮百孔,被挤压得支离破碎。而 There are so many unpleasant things in life, so I always get hurt. Injured and blame themselves, and we torture us always with ourselves. As a matter of fact, when we stop to think about it, we will be surprised to find that, contrary to completely shirking its responsibilities, sometimes we all assume the responsibility that we should not have assumed. This is not to excuse myself. Oftentimes, the causes and consequences of things are not just our own faults, but others and maybe a bit too. With this in mind, perhaps our minds will not be tortured and crushed. and