人在十几二十岁的时候,总是害怕别人说自己“幼稚”,于是戴墨镜,留胡须,与人交谈时把脸扭向一边,装出一副特深沉的样子……的确,在我们传统的思维中,“幼稚”总是和肤浅、对事物判断的错误以及人生的失败等联系在一起的。一般情况下,我们说一个人幼稚,实际上也就等于告诉他:你没有成熟、不谙世故。还不具有某种资格。 When people were in their mid-teens and forties, they were always afraid of being “naive”, wearing sunglasses and beards. When talking to people, they turned their faces to the side and put on a very deep look. Indeed, In our traditional thinking, “naive” is always associated with superficiality, mistakes in judgments of things, and failures in life. Under normal circumstances, we say that a child naive, in fact, will tell him: you are not mature, inexperienced. Not yet qualified.