人间从不缺怨女。张爱玲甚至直接拿来用作小说的名字。《谷风》代表了一大批怨妇——她们善良、痴情、纠缠、无力、自哀自怜。因为付出太多从不求收获,也因为性格软弱,面对男人负心,她没有转身决然跟他分手,或者为自己争取权益,而是说:德音莫违,及尔同死!——你别想把我像扔抹布一样扔掉,我死也不离开你!但是后来,人家另娶新人了,家里没有立足之地,被赶出门。离开的路上还抱着期望,唠叨:不远伊迩,薄送我畿——我以为你总要送我出来,没想到你居然就送到门口! The world never lack of grievances. Eileen Chang even used it as a novel’s name. “Gu Feng” represents a large number of grievances - they are kind, infatuated, entangled, weakness, self-pity. Because never give up because of too much to pay, but also because of weak personality, the face of man, she did not turn around and decided to break up with him, or for their own rights and interests, but said: Do not try to throw me like a throwing rag, I will not leave you! But later, others marry another newcomer, the family has no foothold, was driven out. Leave the road still holding the hope, nagging: not far from Iraq, thin send me - I thought you always send me out, I did not expect you actually sent to the door!