中国传统文化中,“天行健以自强不息”的儒家是乐观的现实主义,“人故有一死,或重于泰山,或轻于鸿毛”;“逍遥游”、“齐万物”的道家虽然虚无,却厌世不厌生,“因其自然”而主张“全生”;禅宗文化则强调要在现世中积极地修行。中国人在这三股文化之流中“安身立命”,在和平时期,鲜有自杀,特别是读书人,即便历经无数天灾人祸,始终保持着生命的韧性。不仅中国传统文化不提倡自杀,就连一向标榜自由的欧美,在过去,也视自杀为“有罪”。英国天主教作家格林的小说《问题的核心》中,描述了一个男人想自杀,但为了逃避宗教的制裁,不得不逐步吞食毒药而慢慢死亡。然而,近年来备受媒体关注的博士自杀事件,令人扼腕痛惜,高校的心理咨询工作再一次受到人们的质疑。尽管我国高校很早就重视大学生心理辅导,但由于采用道德规劝、责任说教的方式,心理咨询被普遍认为是鸡肋:食之无味,弃之可惜。尤其是当前社会转型和价值取向转变的新形势下,传统的心理咨询已“时过境迁”,与时俱进,引进其他学科的宝贵思想,从新的视角展开心理咨询活动将是未来的崭新思路。笔者就试图将统计学的思想引入到心理咨询工作中,来阐明高校自杀率没有显著增加的事实,揭示生命之所以弥足珍贵的缘由,同时在剖析大学生自杀原因的基础上,提供自我“解脱”的统计学思维方式,以期为心理咨询工作的“拿来主义”提供借鉴。 In traditional Chinese culture, the Confucianism that “Heaven is willing to strive for self-improvement and self-improvement” is optimistic realism. Although “one person dies, or is heavier than Mount Taishan, or is lighter than a feather,” Confucianism of “Getaway” and “Thousands of Things” , But not tired of the world, “because of its nature” and advocate “all-encompassing”; Zen culture emphasizes active cultivation in the world. In the three streams of culture, the Chinese have “set their foot in life”. In times of peace, they rarely committed suicide, especially the scholar. Even after countless days of natural disaster, the Chinese people always maintained the resilience of life. Not only does traditional Chinese culture not advocate suicide, even Europe and the United States, which have always advertised freedom, have also considered suicide as “guilty” in the past. In the core of the issue, the British Catholic writer Green, describes a man who wants to commit suicide but has to gradually devour its poison to die slowly in order to evade religious sanctions. However, in recent years, the media-focused Dr. Suicide suicide has deplored melancholy. Once again, psychological counseling in universities is being questioned. Although college attaches great importance to psychological counseling of college students, but due to the use of moral persuasion, responsibility to preach, psychological counseling is generally considered tasteless: tasteless, but unfortunately. Especially in the new situation of the current social transformation and the change of value orientation, the traditional psychological counseling has been “evolving over time,” advancing with the times, introducing valuable ideas from other disciplines, and launching psychological counseling activities from a new perspective will be a brand new thinking for the future. The author attempts to introduce the idea of ​​statistics into the psychological counseling work to clarify the fact that there is no significant increase in suicide rates in colleges and universities and reveal the reason why life is so precious. At the same time, on the basis of analyzing the causes of suicide among college students, “Statistical thinking, with a view to psychological counseling work” to use "to provide reference.