儿子在幼儿园年龄偏小,常常受到“大孩子”的欺负,不是脸上划破了,就是手被人咬了;新买的帽子上缀着两只漂亮的绒球,第二天就被别人扯了,诸如此类的事情,发生了很多次。看着儿子被欺负,我的心里不好受,责备儿子无能、没用吧,又怕伤了孩子的自尊心,有时真想揪出那些“大孩子”,狠狠地教训他一顿…… 然而,冷静沉思,总觉不妥,孩子毕竟是孩子,自控能力差,相互间难免嗑嗑碰碰,如果一旦自己的孩子受了欺 The son of kindergarten age is small, often by the “big boy” bullying, not the face is scratched, the hand was bitten; new hat decorated with two beautiful pompoms, the next day by others Pull, and so on, happened many times. Watching my son was bullied, my heart is not feeling, blame the son incompetent, useless, afraid of hurting the child’s self-esteem, and sometimes really want to catch those “big children”, severely to teach him a meal ... However, Calm thinking, always feel wrong, after all, children are children, poor self-control, inevitably bother with each other, if once their children were bullied