一我12岁那年,我们家里发生两场大的变故:一是因为经常请假带我母亲去省内外的医院治疗,父亲第一批下岗。二是父亲下岗不到四个月,长期患病的母亲去世。受了这两个打击,父亲消沉了很久,整整半年,没有见他露过笑脸。母亲去世半年后,父亲用我们家的房子抵押,从银行贷款十万元,然后又向亲戚朋友借了六万元,在商业街开了个五金店,卖一些常见的五金配件。父亲用心经营,生意很不错,也逐渐走出失去我母亲以及下岗的心理阴影,性格开始变得开朗起来。 When I was 12, two major changes occurred in my family. First, I often took leave to take my mother to hospital inside and outside the province for treatment. My father laid off for the first time. Second, less than four months after his father was laid off, his long-suffering mother died. By these two blows, his father depressed for a long time, a full six months, did not see him smiling. Half a year after his mother’s death, my father mortgaged our house and borrowed 100 thousand yuan from the bank. Then he borrowed 60,000 yuan from relatives and friends and opened a hardware store in the commercial street to sell some common hardware accessories. My father’s business, business is very good, but also gradually out of the psychological shadow of losing my mother and laid-off, the character began to become cheerful.