当前,独生子女家庭居多,很多独生子女集万千宠爱于一身,他们享受着太多的爱,个性自私、倔强、任性,以自我为中心,我行我素,特立独行,与人相处能力相对较差,没有集体主义思想,受不了委屈,从而导致孩子在学校不好管理,在家就是中心,这样生活长大的孩子,性格上有缺陷,不善于在社会中与人相处,从而产生很多不良的后果,那么怎样去改变这些孩子的生活方式就成为当下德育工作者思考的问题。 At present, the number of only-child families is high, many single children are spoiled by love and affection. They enjoy too much love and are selfish, stubborn, self-centered and self-centered, and they are self-reliant and independent. , There is no collectivism, can not stand the grievance, resulting in the child is not good management in school, at home is the center, so children grow up, character flawed, not good at getting along with others in the community, resulting in many undesirable consequences , Then how to change the way of life of these children has become the current moral education workers thinking.