人类恋母是先天之性,特别是在孩子的眼里,母亲是寄托、是依靠、是关怀、是保护、是美的化身。但值得注意的是,现代儿童中已出现不少恋母过度而造成心态畸形的事例,而这种现象的出现又往往是母亲过度溺爱孩子所造成的。心理学家认为,小孩子幼儿期恋母视为正常,进入学龄期后,孩子在社会心理发展方面变得上进、勤勉、自信、合作,开始有独立意识。此时,恋母太过则易造成心理障碍。由于独生子女的特殊地位,使许多父母变得神经质,还因为 Human Oedipal is a congenital nature, especially in the eyes of children, the mother is sustenance, rely on, care, protection, is the embodiment of the United States. However, it is noteworthy that there have been many instances of abnormal dementia among modern children, and this phenomenon is often caused by excessive spoiling of children by mothers. Psychologists believe that children in childhood as the Oedipus as normal, after entering school age, the children become superior in social and psychological development, diligence, self-confidence, cooperation, began to have independent awareness. At this point, Oedipus too easy to cause psychological disorders. Because of the special status of only children, many parents become neurotic, but also because