这里所讲的“离巢”主要是指孩子进入少年期后,对父母的崇拜、依恋、顺从逐渐减弱,活动中心明显地从家庭转向外界的现象。并非指那些不辞而别,离开父母,弃家出走的逆反心理行为。当然,由于处置不当也是会诱发逆反心理行为发生的。有的家长抱怨说:“我的孩子上初中后,每天放学回家,不再像先前那样待在家里,而老是向外跑,喜欢到别人家里或其他地方玩,常常很久看不到他的踪 The word ”departure from the nest“ as used herein mainly refers to the phenomenon that when a child enters adolescence, his worship, attachment and obedience to parents diminish gradually, and the center of activity clearly shifts from his home to the outside world. Not referring to those who say good-bye, leave their parents, abandon their family’s rebellious behavior. Of course, due to improper disposal will also induce rebellious behavior occurred. Some parents complain that: ”After my junior high school, my children go home from school every day, no longer stay at home as before, run outside often, enjoy playing in other people’s homes and other places, and often can not see for a long time His trace