小到成绩排名,大到升学择校,家长们的心里始终惦记着“别人家的孩子”。记得有人说过,不管是谁,至少有一样应该是出色的。家长们在教育孩子时,如果将精力集中到自家孩子出色之处,而不是将“别人家的孩子”挂在嘴边上,其家庭教育就成功了一半。某机构进行了一项“孩子最反感的家长行为”问卷调查,结果显示,排名第一的是家长总把自己跟别人家孩子作比较,其比例远远超过“家长无休止的唠叨”。这个“别人家的孩子”有时候是广义的,甚至连姓名也没有;有时候是狭义的,具体到孩子 To the small rankings, ascending to school choice, parents always remember “other people’s children ”. I remember someone said, no matter who, at least one should be excellent. When parents are educating their children, family education is half done if they concentrate on the good things their own children do, not about “children of other people.” An agency conducted a “child’s most dislike parental behavior ” questionnaire survey, the results show that the number one priority is that parents always compared themselves with other children, the proportion is far more than “parents endless chatter ” This “children of other people ” is sometimes broad-minded, not even named; sometimes narrowly specific to children