问:刘老伯老伴去世后,于2003年请了个小他12岁的顾某做保姆。日久生情,两人相互之间都产生了好感,可都觉得已经是一把年岁了,没必要登记结婚。再说与保姆结婚又怕人笑话,只好同居生活。前不久,刘老伯突发疾病,抢救期间,因医院抢救存在过错,导致刘老伯不幸去世。刘老伯获得赔偿9万元全部被顾某拿走。处理完刘老伯的丧事后,刘老伯的子女向顾某索要医院方给付的9万元赔偿款,顾某认为自己 Q: Liu old man wife died, in 2003, he asked a small 12-year-old Gu as a nanny. As time goes by, both of them have had a good impression of each other, both of whom feel that they are already old, and there is no need to register for marriage. Say marrying with the nanny afraid of joke, had to live together. Not long ago, Liu old man sudden illness, during the rescue, due to hospital rescue fault, leading to the unfortunate death of Liu old man. Liu old man get 90,000 yuan of compensation were all taken away by Gu. After the treatment of old man's funeral Liu, Liu old man's child to the hospital to pay 90,000 yuan Gu Mou compensation, Gu think herself